tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7139102073128753370.post1499954810023692890..comments2011-08-30T23:59:32.970-07:00Comments on T-Bag This: I Suck At This GameT-Bag Thishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12349372667243786697noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7139102073128753370.post-62441292136545180652011-01-17T22:03:01.889-08:002011-01-17T22:03:01.889-08:00Tony!
I am a long time reader, first time comment...Tony!<br /><br />I am a long time reader, first time commenter<br /><br />of course they like you, ladies love a guy with a good sense of humor, i saw this show on tv where they had a dj, race car driver and a stand up comedian and they each say how many women they`ve slept with, the comedian won by far!<br /><br />My advice is never jump into a new relationship because the old one didn`t work. If you and Merkin don`t work out you will need some time for youself first no?sarah zoohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09761164629168817127noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7139102073128753370.post-55870202380751624972011-01-16T21:12:22.272-08:002011-01-16T21:12:22.272-08:00A new lady?? Man, how times have changed. I'm ...A new lady?? Man, how times have changed. I'm happy for you, and heartbroken for you at the same time. Oh Tony.Steam Me Up, Kidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06977888919979444175noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7139102073128753370.post-74070784574713861972011-01-16T00:37:33.323-08:002011-01-16T00:37:33.323-08:00Aww, I'm happy to read that you've met som...Aww, I'm happy to read that you've met someone and have gone out a couple times. I think it's good that you're being open with Merkin about it if you two are thinking towards working things out. However, I do think (going off what you've stated on here, which obviously isn't the <i>entire</i> story, and also the fact that I don't personally know you so you can take or leave my advice/thoughts) that things would be so much better if you didn't have to live together anymore. I mean, that just screams all kinds of awkward and unhealthy and stifling at me from my limited viewpoint of the situation. I honestly think you just need to allow yourself some space from each other and freedom to see whomever you'd like without guilt thrown at you through a look or tense silence when you come home from being out with someone else. <br /><br />Do what's best and healthy for your emotional and mental well-being and try not to totally overanalyze things. I'm guilty of doing that and it totally wreaks havoc on my nerves. However, I will point out your wording cause I find it interesting and possibly very telling...<i>"I'm confused because I want to get back together with Merkin but Erika's..."</i>. Not that you're thinking about it or it could be possible, but that you want to. If that's true and not just an ambiguous wording, then you definitely need to have (if you aren't already) some serious conversations with her about where you stand and where you'd both like to go and how to go about getting there. And be honest with Erika about it too, so she doesn't have any false expectations as to what is or isn't going on with the two of you. <br /><br />Like you said, there's definitely things to figure out, but there is my input for whatever it is(n't) worth. Also, stop saying that people are out of your league because that's crap.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com